24 Ways to Initiate Dirty Talks for Long-Distance Relationships

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So, my lovelies – get out there and talk dirty! I know I will, after an entirely appropriate period of dating, of course. As always, feel free to read other relationship tips and look around our store to find some thoughtful and sexy gifts for couples.

Dirty talk examples and dirty text messages

The following conversation gives a great example on how you can use sexting to see if your partner would be into it or not. This example sext shows how to check-in with your partner throughout your sexting conversation to make sure everything is OK. All it takes is a "Should I keep going?" to ask for consent.

• So, it looks like a lot of our followers feel turned on by dirty talk (in the right context) but feel awkward starting it or uncomfortably because they don’t feel they know what to do.
• These 64 dirty talk examples will get both your heart’s racing and make your lover desperate to come back for more.
• I can’t stop thinking about what you did with your dick the last time we were together.

Dirty Talk: Beginner Level

• Sex talk like this really turns a woman on.
• If you want to learn more dirty phrases like these, you'll find them in his detailed video tutorial.
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• I’m still cognizant of how much noise is being made or you know just the environment and that really detracts from what’s happening.

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How to Say Dirty Things to Your Partner?

Say something like, “you are so sexy to me,” and go from there. When talking dirty to your man, you are going to find that you have a lot more success at turning your man on and building sexual tension if you do it confidently. So the next time you talk dirty to your man, make sure to speak slowly and clearly in a way that accentuates the meaning of the actual words. As with most things to do with eroticism, it’s often the least politically correct things that are some of the biggest turn ons behind closed bedroom doors. Dirty talk may feel strange at first as you pick your brain for the perfect dirty things to say to your partner.

That thing you did last time with your tongue — un-freaking-believable! Would they like you to do something that turns you on? This can be a great time to get to know your partner better. It's about making them feel like they are the only person in the world. It's about asking for what you want and then telling them how great they are. It's about flirting and then having them flirt back.